Asked the professor again, 'But the person is just right next to you,
why can't we talk softly but have to SHOUT?'
![untitled.bmp untitled.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc0165e0c3.jpg)
Everyone gave their opinions but none was accepted by the professor.
![untitled2.bmp untitled2.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc01f9fd07.jpg)
Lastly explained by the professor 'When we are ANGRY, our hearts drift apart.. To mask the DISTANCE
we felt, we instinctively SHOUT instead of speak so the other
party can hear us.'
![untitled3.bmp untitled3.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc028c1169.jpg)
'But as we SHOUT, we get ANGRIER. And we felt we drift apart further.
So we SHOUT even louder...'
![untitled4.bmp untitled4.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc03215beb.jpg)
'It is the opposite when we are in love. Not only we do not shout,
we whisper into each other ears. Why?'
![untitled5.bmp untitled5.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc03b69883.jpg)
'This is because our hearts are very close, almost never apart. As our love deepen,
we reach a state of communication where there is no need for words.'
![untitled6.bmp untitled6.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc04499e2f.jpg)
'We understand each other well enough just by exchanging look,' concluded the professor.
![untitled7.bmp untitled7.bmp](https://pic.pimg.tw/allpass100/498dc00d0e5a7.jpg)
'Therefore, when we are arguing, DO NOT speak words that will make
our hearts drift apart. WAIT a few days. When you feel your hearts are
no longer far apart,
pick up the conversation and continue from there.'
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